So I'm sitting here listening to Faith Evan's "You Used To Love Me" and I started thinking. Do some people actually get over their "first love"? I know a lot of people who are still involved with their first love or somebody they loved unconditionally and they aren't together and may actually have another partner. I wonder why this still occurs if supposedly you may be "over" this person? I myself still wonder will I ever get over my Ex-Boyfriend. The difference is, I was still and am still able to move on from him and life without feeling hatred in my heart nor still dealing with him. Sometimes things just aren't meant to be or it wasn't planned out right the first time. So you let GOD figure out what went wrong then he presents it to you both then you decide. I had several issues within my relationship that caused us to part but that didn't BREAK me...it HELPED me. I take somethings as a life lesson. Now of course I can sit here and remember the way that he use to love me, but I can also remember the way I use to love my dog. lol Nah but seriously, When you've found someone who you may have given your all to and that goes away, you might be hurt and still reminisce here and there. Sometimes I wonder "What if?" but the path I am on now answers to me "This is why..." IDK. Some people may not understand where I'm coming from but I'm just simply saying though you love some...YOU DONT HAVE TO STAY WITH THEM. You can love someone and be without them, because in the end, maybe that's the best thing to do for the moment or for eternity. Any new relationship that I may get into as I get older will know how I felt about my first love and how I handle love in general because L.O.V.E is a serious emotion. Though being with that out on the table I would NEVER step aside from my current partner to cheat with my EX. That's a ball of confusion and mistrust that I personally don't need and I can't understand why some people can deal with it.
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